Holiday Gift Suggestions: Husbands, Fathers, Brothers and Other Men you Love

Not gonna lie. Shopping for the men in my life is usually the most stressful part of my holiday shopping. My husband, in particular, isn’t really a “stuff” guy, so finding presents that are useful and wonderful and not just “box-checking” gifts so he has something to unwrap when everyone else does can be tough. I generally opt for “experience” gifts because that’s the love language that resonates with him the most. But sometimes it IS nice to have something to unwrap, so I’ve curated a list of suggestions that might make it easier for YOU to shop for the men in your life.

The list is book heavy. I make no apologies for that. If you’re an Amazon shopper, there are affiliate links throughout the post. But if you’re planning ahead and can survive without two-day shipping, I recommend shopping local whenever you can. Particularly for books! is a great way to shop for your favorite books while supporting local independent bookstores. Okay! Let’s get to the list.

Fancy Pants Work-out shorts from Vuori Clothing: Full disclosure? When the husband wanted to try these shorts, I balked at the price. But I finally caved and ordered some for his last birthday and he vows they are worth every single penny. We’re excited to try the joggers…for him (and me!). Kore shots from Vuori

Face Masks and socks from Pair of Thieves. I know. Face masks aren’t exactly a fun gift. But these are super stretchy and breathable and quickly became favorites at our house. Both times I ordered, I added a few pairs of socks to get free shipping, and they are great too. My husband loves to wear socks with merino wool (no stinky feet!) and the Pair of Thieves option is great.

Gourmet Food from Destination Cities Even though traveling isn’t happening a ton right now (I’m still bitter over the canceled anniversary trip), you can still enjoy the unique flavors of favorite cities/destinations. I particularly love this Charleston County Breakfast basket. The grits are the best you’ll find and the peach butter is out of sight. Maybe it’s a sampling of barbecue sauces from the different regions of the US. Or a particular dessert that you discovered and loved when you were traveling. These days, Google and fast shipping can make just about anything possible, so take advantage!

Full disclosure. These Bose noise cancelling headphones are STUPID expensive. But they really are amazing at what they do. I work from home. And in this season of hybrid/at-home schooling, there are ALWAYS people around. I’m not an audiophile, but when I tried on seven million different pairs of noise cancelling headphones at Best Buy, these were the clear winners. If you have money to burn, I highly recommend.

Cremo Personal Care My husband doesn’t actually have a beard. Just scruff. And I like it that way. But he does use Cremo hair care products and likes them more than other stuff he’s tried. Since the beard craze persists, if you have a hairy man in your life, this might be a great fit.

BNutty Gourmet Peanut Butter We are big peanut butter eaters over here. And BNutty doesn’t disappoint. My favorite is the one with pretzels and white chocolate. But next on my list to try is the Raspberry White Chocolate. Or the Pecan Pie. Or the CoCoNutty. YOU GET THE POINT.

How the South Won the Civil War, by Heather Cox Richardson For anyone interested in history and politics, Heather Cox Richardson’s latest book is worth the read. Straight from the book description: Richardson’s searing book seizes upon the soul of the country and its ongoing struggle to provide equal opportunity to all. Debunking the myth that the Civil War released the nation from the grip of oligarchy, expunging the sins of the Founding, it reveals how and why the Old South not only survived in the West, but thrived.

Destiny of the Republic, by Candice Millard But every single person I know that has read this book has raved about it and called it a fascinating look at an often overlooked presidency. What do you know about James Garfield, after all? “One of the many pleasures of Candice Millard’s new book, Destiny of the Republic, [is] that she brings poor Garfield to life—and a remarkable life it was. . . . Fascinating. . . . Millard has written us a penetrating human tragedy.”
The New York Times Book Review

Shoe Dog, by Phil Knight Another story you might not guess would be as interesting as it is. We added this one to our list because it was one of Bill Gates’s favorite books of 2016. He described it as “a messy, perilous, and chaotic journey, riddled with mistakes, endless struggles, and sacrifice. Phil Knight opens up in ways few CEOs are willing to do.”

Thinking in Bets, by Annie Duke The idea of this book fascinated me right from the start. A book about making decisions from a world-class poker player? This one comes recommended from a friend that I love and trust…it’s on my list for this year. And now it can be on your list too! “A highly-readable balance between memorable, real-world analogies and hardcore behavioral science studies… The book is packed with insights.” –John Greathouse, Forbes

Beneath a Scarlet Sky, by Mark Sullivan Lest you think I believe men only read nonfiction…this novel is another highly recommended by a friend; she says that her husband and his book group all really enjoyed it. “Meticulous research highlights this World War II novel of a youth growing into manhood…a captivating read…” —RT Book Reviews

The Way of Kings, by Brandon Sanderson Honestly, anything that Brandon Sanderson ever writes is going to be brilliant. I’ve read the first two books of this series, my oldest kids have read the first three and are anxiously awaiting the fourth, and my husband just started the first. It is a novel that requires commitment and fortitude because is is ENORMOUS. But it’s worth the effort. Incomparable high fantasy that literally made me stand up on my bed with excitement as I read.

Okay! I hope at least one of these suggestions resonated with you as useful. Other lists coming soon? (In time for Christmas shopping, I promise.) Books not to miss for Children, Middle Grade and Young Adult readers. I love books that allow my kids to escape, but I also love books that help them see bigger and be better humans, and sometimes we have to look a little bit harder for those books. Until next time…thanks for reading!

Sign up to Win – Contest through 8/8/18

Just dropping by the blog to let you all know that I’m still alive, and still writing. Even though I presently have NOTHING to show for my efforts. Except, you know, six children that are still alive and well. I’m counting them double this year. New books? NOPE. But the oldest is starting his senior year and the baby is starting the first grade and we moved from North Carolina to South Carolina and settled into a new neighborhood and new church family and new school community and good grief has it been a lot of work. So I’m not apologizing, I guess. I’ve been busy! I DO have a couple of projects in the work though, and I hope to have news that I can share with you very, very soon.

In the meantime, want to win some free books? I’ve recently partnered with five other romance authors to bring you the chance to win SIX different prizes. The contest only runs through August 8th, so don’t miss out! All you have to do is sign up for a few newsletters and you’ll be entered to win. (I know. Newsletters can feel invasive and spammy. I promise none of these authors are of the “I will write you everyday” variety. I think I just sent out my first newsletter in more than a year. I’m not proud. Or maybe I AM that I finally sent one!) I wouldn’t recommend these authors if I didn’t love and have complete faith in the quality of the books up for grabs. Find the giveaway on Rafflecopter through the link below!

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Whitney Finalists and other Happenings

Wrong for You - more comps3What’s New? Back at the beginning of February, the 2017 Whitney Award Finalists were announced. I’m so happy that Wrong For You was selected as a finalist in the Romance Category. Love at First Note was the winner in 2016, so it was extra exciting to make the cut for a second year in a row. I really love Lane and Simon and the other characters in Wrong For You and am so happy that the book is getting a little bit of love. You can see all the finalists in all ten categories here.


Winners will be announced at the Whitney Award Gala in Provo, UT on May 5, 2018. I’ll be there, exhausted from a weekend of networking and learning at the 2018 Storymakers Conference, but I’m sure I’ll still be smiling. Because that’s what Storymakers makes me do. The conference is sold out this year, but if you’ve EVER considered attending a writing conference, this is the perfect one to start with. It’s welcoming and inclusive and inexpensive and the quality of instruction blows me away every single year.

I’m throwing my own class into the mix this year–about conflict in Romance and keeping your characters apart in just the right way. If your characters could solve all their problems in one five minute conversation of truth telling? Yeah. That doesn’t cut it.

story geniusWhat am I reading? I’m plowing through (and enjoying!) fellow Whitney finalists. In progress: Sarah M. Eden’s Love Remains. Next on deck: Jeff Zentner’s Goodbye Days. In addition, I’m working on my novel writing with Lisa Cron’s Story Genius. With a tagline that reads: How to Use Brain Science to Go Beyond Outlining and Write a Riveting Novel (Before you waste three years writing 327 pages that go nowhere) I figured this was a book I could benefit from. My productivity has taken a hit lately, what with moving and . . . moving. So I’m hoping this will jump start and inspire me back into actually making some progress.

What am I loving? This is not book related. But I’m sharing anyway because I love it that much. DHC Lip Cream. It makes my lips very happy. Keeps them moisturized and DHC lip creamsuper soft and I promise even though it seems expensive, it is so worth it. Treat your lips. You’ll thank me later. And it comes in a two pack, so you can keep one for you, and give one to a friend. I actually made this a part of my Christmas presents this year. It’s just. that. good.


What am I eating? This recipe for Pork Tenderloin Sliders from my lovely friend, Randi, as frequently as possible. And Kale Salad made with White Peach Balsamic Vinegar from Spice It Up. Also. I finally made it down to Sweet Belgium (a Belgian waffle bakery that landed on my to-do list fourteen seconds after moving to Charleston) and OH was it worth it.

What am I listening to? 

Leslie Odom Jr.’s soulful Nobody Knows You (When You’re Down and Out) 

Sara Bareilles singing She Used to Be Mine from the Broadway musical Waitress.

Imagine Dragons covering Taylor Swift’s Blank Space

James Arthur singing Say You Won’t Let Go

What am I working on? A YA Contemporary called The Summer of Nell, with another contemporary romance for Covenant simmering on the back burner. And! Starting this month, a collaboration with three of my FAVORITE fellow authors. More about that coming soon!